As a milspouse we make big decisions all the time by ourselves with little to no input from our spouse. I have decided on apartments, colors, decorating... things for Diva. Then come the REALLY big decisions! Recently I sold BD's car and we started the house hunting process (OK, not WE but I did) for when he comes home. We LOVE the area we live in and Diva loves her school and her friends. While I have never been totally sold on staying in California, for now it's where we will be. I could not imagine taking Diva from her Grammy here (because the state my family lives in is not a realistic possiblity) and I could not imagine leaving MY grandma! So California is home.
With that being said... homes here are SOOOOO expensive that it's always seemed unattainable. Recently it's seemed a little less so but with him gone I just don't know about making the decision on our first home alone. AHHHH
What to do... what to doo.......
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